I have something love-ish to say. It’s okay if you won’t agree with it. It’s about relationships that last longer:
I have come to realize that for a relationship to thrive, the Guy not the chick has to be madly stupidly in love with his woman. He has to see her as the center obsession before cars and other simple obsessions. She has to be the Art, the Poem, the symphony and the 16 part accapella. He has to see her beyond her moody, irrational, illogical and inconsistent self. More often than not, he will see her as his baby, worth of those names people don’t call each other in public. He has to be so proud of her that he wants to show the world his gem. He covers her back and let’s her be. He will bless her, teach her, uplift her and look for opportunities to make her know she’s all the women he has ever desired placed in one. He is not lazy when it comes to her, he doesn’t have to have money, he is pure of heart a thing she will pick. He is playful, around her but serious and focused on atomorrow where he will wake and think, GADAMN this woman be hot, better get a job.
…..And the Woman
The wise one knows that she means the world to the guy. She keeps the relationship alive by respecting him, I love yous do not matter to him if its more said than done… she knows he is stupid, makes mohawks in the bathroom and fart really bad ones. She knows Sex is not what keeps him interested in her. That she acknowledges can get old and boring. She reads and keeps him intrigued intellectually,. Emotionally and those other allys.…she knows his love language and speaks it, not to kiss ass, but because when he is happy he rebounds it on her. She knows that when he is down, he will turn to her to be uplifted, she knows when to say what and what to do. She serves him tea or a drink that makes him happy. She has his back AT ALL TIMES. She keeps him on toes not based on what the world dictates but based on facts and pure knowledge of her man. She keeps herself amazing and easy to love. She is not boring and knows her man is an individual who has beaten many odds to be with her.. she does not compare him to his dad, brother X and other “enviable” men… They are not with her, HE IS.
Once these two meet, the make a value adding, nation changing, society changing and kingdom building relationship. A lasting one.